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Spring Is Here, So Make It Sexy!

spring, romanceSure, there’s something romantic about winter, with the falling snow and toasty fires, but if you’re like us, you’re definitely excited about spring. One of the best things about spring are all the opportunities for being sexy!

Put away the flannels: Now that you don’t have to hide under thick layers of clothes, you can put away the flannel and pull out the nighties. While you’re at it, treat yourself to some nice spring pastel colors to lighten the mood as well.

Aromatherapy: Now that spring is here, you can freshen up your home with some candles and incense. Floral scents, vanilla, and citrus are great fragrances that can lift your spirits and set the mood.

Treat your skin: Winter skin isn’t always pleasant, and it’s not always sexy, but now that spring is here, you can turn it all around. Treat yourself to some exotic bath wash, lotion, and oil and you’ll be silky smooth before you know it.

And of course, it’s also a great time to bring back date night now that the weather’s more pleasant. A romantic dinner, an evening of dancing, or wine tasting can be just the thing you need to shake off the cold and kick-start the heat!

Looking for more sexy ideas? We’ve got you covered – just jump in the car and see us in person.

 

Fun and Easy Valentine’s Day Ideas

valentine's day, romance, netflixThis is the month we’ve been waiting for, and if you’re anything like us, you’re counting down the days until Valentine’s Day. Not only does this holiday give us an excuse to eat chocolate, but it also gives us plenty of opportunities for romance!

Just in case you’re looking for some fun and spicy ideas, we’ve got you covered. Here are four simple but sexy ways to make this a day to remember:

1. Book a room and call it a night – Nothing says sexy like unexpectedly booking a hotel room for you and your significant other. Make it even more of an adventure by not telling them until it’s check-in time!

2. Buy a sexy outfit and keep it a secret – Wearing something sexy is always a win, but what about keeping your ultra-sexy outfit a secret until the moment of truth. This ups the hot factor and is sure to be a big hit.

3. “Netflix and chill” with a twist – We all know what “Netflix and chill” means, but what about upping the ante by making your evening’s entertainment something spicy? Head on over and pick up something interesting and we promise your partner won’t know what hit them!

4. Surprise meet and greet – You know your partner’s schedule, so why not dress up and meet them unexpectedly to whisk them away for the evening? You can boost the sexy factor on this by adding a little role play to the scenario.

We could keep going all night, but we bet you have some ideas of your own as well. No matter what you do, remember Valentine’s Day comes once a year so you might as well make it one for the books. So let your imagination go wild and start making plans today!

 

Romance Resolutions for 2018

romance resolutions 2018Every year people make resolutions like working harder, losing weight, and eating healthier. While these can be great goals, they aren’t particularly fun, are they? We want to propose some resolutions you’ll actually look forward to keeping this year!

1. Make time for romance.

You want to, you need to, and yet every year people let work and other obligations get in between them and love. So this year, aim to make romance a constant priority – you won’t regret it!

2. Spice things up.

It’s very easy to add some heat to the bedroom these days. From marital aids and fun games to sexy lingerie and mood lighting, there are many ways to add back the spice. This year, make it your goal to try some new things in the bedroom.

3. Pamper yourself.

Sure, taking the time to pamper yourself is good for you, but did you know that it could also be good for your relationship too? When you take care of yourself, you feel better and have more confidence, both of which help improve your love life!

4. Be nice to yourself!

Okay, so you’re not a lingerie model, but that’ doesn’t mean you’re not sexy. This year, try and be a bit nicer to yourself so that you can relax and enjoy life a bit more. This will not only help you in the romance department, it will also help you in other areas of life!

5. Be nice to your partner!

Maybe your mate forgets an anniversary, or isn’t always as expressive as you’d like. That doesn’t mean they aren’t completely crazy about you. So this year try to appreciate what your partner does instead of dwelling on what they don’t do – you’ll both be happier.

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‘Tis the Season for Love

winter romance, seasonIt’s getting darker earlier, the sun is rising later, the weather is colder – but contrary to popular belief this is actually the perfect time of the year for romance. What’s better than a night by the fireplace with someone you love? Exactly!

Here are some simple mood-setting ideas to make this holiday season the season for love!

Candles and more candles – Candles are romantic, plain and simple. Lighting up the room with beautiful, flickering candlelight instantly transforms the mood. So light the room up and enjoy yourself!

Incense, lotions, and oils – Incense can change the mood in many ways, depending on the scents you choose. Musk, sandalwood, vanilla, and jasmine are a few great ones to get you started. Lotions and oils create many sensual opportunities, including the sexy scents they come in.

Lingerie and accessories – Few things say “Let’s have some fun” like lingerie. Luckily, lingerie works for all body types, so find a flattering cut and enjoy. You can also top off your look with hosiery and sexy shoes for a completely unforgettable evening.

Novelty items – If you’re really looking to throw some logs onto the fire, so to speak, why not try novelty items? These come in a large range of possibilities, so we assure you there is something for everyone. So come in and browse – we’re sure you’ll find something perfect!

There you have it, some super easy, super fun ways to add some heat to your holiday season!

 

Make Time for Romance This Holiday Season

holidays, romanceIf you’re like most people, you’re gearing up for the busy holiday season. While it’s a great time of year, it can also put a strain on relationships. Here are a few tips for making time for romance, even in the busiest holiday season.

Make date night a priority

It’s easy to let holiday plans take over your life. If you’re in a relationship though, this can make your partner feel like they aren’t very important. Fortunately, it’s easy to avoid this by keeping up with date nights! If you don’t have a regular date night, then this is the time to start!

Say no…to obligations, that is!

Many people have a hard time saying “no” when they’re asked to help, especially during the holiday season. Not only can this put a strain on your free time, it also increases your overall stress level, which is a surefire romance killer! So, make sure you don’t over-obligate yourself with holiday festivities this time around!

Include romance in the celebration

The holidays and gift-giving go hand in hand. This gives you a golden opportunity to make romance a part of the celebration! This is a great way to make sure that holiday stress doesn’t end up hurting your relationship. So, pick out some sweet, romantic, and sexy gifts for your significant other so they know they’re always on your mind.

From Thanksgiving to Christmas, the holiday season is full of both fun and work. These simple tips can help you make the most of the season while protecting your relationship along the way!

 

 

 

First Date No-Nos

first date no-nosNobody really likes first dates. We know that it’s thrilling to go out with someone for the first time, but it is also stressful and full of uncertainty. While you can find plenty of tips about how to have a great first date, we thought we’d focus on some first date no-nos. These are things you should never do on the all-important first date.

1. Don’t talk about your ex! We know it’s tempting, but not only is it off-putting to say negative things about your ex, it’s just as bad to talk about them positively. It’s also insulting to the person you’re with, so focus on getting to know your date and leave your ex in the past.

2. Don’t tell them you’ve “checked them out” online, even if you did. Looking through their Facebook or other social media account can give you a false sense of closeness and portray something that’s not real. Get to know them by interacting with them, not reading about them.

3. Go easy on the drinks. It’s okay to have a cocktail but be don’t overdo it. Not only do you want to remain in control of your facilities, getting drunk on your first date is pretty unflattering. So cut yourself off early on and save yourself a lot of regret.

4. Don’t start talking about the future, no matter how much your heart is fluttering. This can be a red flag that you’re clingy and desperate, which is exactly the wrong message to send. So keep it light and enjoy yourself without expectations.

5. Don’t spend the night on your phone. The point of your date is to get to know each other, and you can’t do that if you’re playing on your phone all night. It’s also pretty rude, so put your phone away and focus on your date!

Have any “first date no-nos” tips of your own? Please share them in the comments below!

 

Give Your Partner a Night of High Romance

candlelightThere are so many relationships that get caught up in routine sex, routine dinner, routine date night (if you even make time for it anymore) and blah, blah, blah! The important part of this post, is that you WANT to improve your relationship. Therefore, you are ready to try some high romance tactics.

I suggest you send her to the salon and get a great massage. While she is doing that, you head to the nearest lingerie store to pick out something she will feel beautiful in. We always recommend you shop local and avoid chain stores. When she is close to home, have a bath drawn for her. Go the distance, have candles lit, champagne chilled and ready to pop open, and a little mood music (I love D’Angelo). When she gets home, lead her to the bathroom, then YOU undress her and help her into the tub. Pour her a glass of champagne and tell her to relax. If your tub is big enough for both of you, join her. That’s an added bonus! Most importantly, just play. Reconnect. Relax.

When the bath is over, YOU dry her off. Relax, don’t rush, rub her down with massage oil. She will be so relaxed and into the moment, that you should be very capable of making this a night to remember for her.

Here is a great sex position to try, too. Place her hips under a pillow, ask her to keep her feet firmly on the bed, ease yourself into her at this point. Use shallow strokes, only about 1.5 inches to 3 inches in. Shallow strokes make it easier to find her G-spot. Do this for as long as you can, then alternate deep, penetrating strokes, with the shallow strokes and this is sure to be one of her favorite moves. In general, this is a winner for me.

Let me know how it goes! Enjoy!